How It Works
From “we should” to “see you there.”
WithMe isn’t built for endless matching. One person makes the plan concrete. Others raise their hand when it fits. The host chooses, and everyone knows what happens next.
See a WithMe in actionThe plan stays anchored to a place, a time, and a person who made it happen.
That structure works whether you are new in town, keeping a last-minute night alive, or turning a private invite into something easy to say yes to.
What the flow looks like
A host starts with an actual plan.
Every WithMe starts with a real place and a real time. Someone decides to make it happen.
Anyone who can see it can express interest.
WithMe is designed for momentum, not gatekeeping. Preferences help shape fit and ranking, but they do not hard-block someone from saying they’re in.
The host chooses who joins.
The host chooses. That’s the decision. Once they pick, the plan moves forward.
Now it becomes a real thing.
Once selected, the WithMe is confirmed. Chat, notifications, and follow-through tools exist to help the plan get out of the app and into real life.
After you’re picked, the plan keeps moving.
Selection opens the practical layer: chat for the small details, visible plan context for everyone involved, notifications when timing matters, and enough structure to help the night survive real life.
A WithMe can start as a dinner, a movie, drinks, a pop-up, or a private invite. Once it is confirmed, the product keeps pointing toward the same outcome: show up together.
See a WithMe in action