Safety on WithMe

WithMe is built to help people make real plans with real context.

That also means you're meeting real people in the real world.

We take that seriously.

You choose who you meet, where you go, and whether you go at all.

Context before you say yes

Profile details and plan controls sit close to the decision. You can understand who is involved, then choose whether to continue.

See the person.

WithMe detail actions showing interest, block, and report controls — Keep control nearby.

How WithMe is designed to help

You choose your plans

You decide which WithMes to join
You decide when and where to go

Nothing is automatic.

Hosts choose who joins

Every WithMe has a host
Hosts select who they want to meet

That creates a layer of intentionality before anything happens.

Profiles give you context

Photos, bio, and preferences
Enough to make an informed decision

You’re not walking in blind.

You stay in control

Block anyone
Report behavior
Leave a plan at any time

You are never locked into anything.

Smart ways to meet

Meet in public places

Choose venues like:

restaurants
coffee shops
bars

Avoid private or unfamiliar locations for first meetups.

Tell someone where you’re going

the place
the time
who you’re meeting

A quick text goes a long way.

Go with your instincts

If something feels off:

don’t go
or leave

You don’t owe anyone anything.

Keep it simple the first time

Short, low-pressure plans are best:

coffee
drinks
a quick bite

You can always extend if it’s going well.

These aren’t rules. They’re common sense.

What WithMe does (and doesn’t do)

WithMe helps people:

create plans
connect
coordinate

WithMe does not:

run background checks on every user
guarantee behavior
supervise meetups

WithMe does not control what happens in person.

The most important thing

You decide:

who you meet
whether you go

WithMe helps:

turn an idea into a plan
turn a plan into something real

Everything after that is up to you.

If something goes wrong

If you experience:

harassment
unsafe behavior
anything that doesn’t feel right

You can:

report the user in-app
block them immediately

If you are in danger, contact local authorities.

Child Safety and CSAE Standards

WithMe prohibits child sexual abuse and exploitation, including any content, conduct, request, profile, message, plan, link, image, or coordination that sexualizes, exploits, grooms, endangers, coerces, traffics, or abuses a minor.

Users may not use WithMe to create, upload, send, request, solicit, normalize, promote, or coordinate child sexual abuse material, sexualized content involving minors, grooming behavior, sextortion, trafficking, or attempts to move minors into unsafe off-platform contact.

WithMe is intended for adults. Accounts, profiles, WithMes, messages, or reports involving minors in a sexual, exploitative, deceptive, or unsafe context may be removed, restricted, preserved as evidence, and reported to appropriate authorities where required or appropriate.

Users can report suspected CSAE, grooming, exploitation, or any urgent safety concern in-app or by contacting support@xwith.me. If someone is in immediate danger, contact local emergency services first.

Need help?

support@xwith.me