WithMe is built to help people go out, not just match.
That also means you're meeting real people in the real world.
We take that seriously.
You choose who you meet, where you go, and whether you go at all.
How WithMe is designed to help
You choose your plans
- You decide which WithMes to join
- You decide when and where to go
Nothing is automatic.
Hosts choose who joins
- Every WithMe has a host
- Hosts select who they want to meet
That creates a layer of intentionality before anything happens.
Profiles give you context
- Photos, bio, and preferences
- Enough to make an informed decision
You’re not walking in blind.
You stay in control
- Block anyone
- Report behavior
- Leave a plan at any time
You are never locked into anything.
Smart ways to meet
Meet in public places
Choose venues like:
- restaurants
- coffee shops
- bars
Avoid private or unfamiliar locations for first meetups.
Tell someone where you’re going
Share:
- the place
- the time
- who you’re meeting
A quick text goes a long way.
Go with your instincts
If something feels off:
- don’t go
- or leave
You don’t owe anyone anything.
Keep it simple the first time
Short, low-pressure plans are best:
- coffee
- drinks
- a quick bite
You can always extend if it’s going well.
These aren’t rules. They’re common sense.
If something goes wrong
If you experience:
- harassment
- unsafe behavior
- anything that doesn’t feel right
You can:
- report the user in-app
- block them immediately
If you are in danger, contact local authorities.
What WithMe does (and doesn’t do)
WithMe helps people:
- create plans
- connect
- coordinate
WithMe does not:
- run background checks on every user
- guarantee behavior
- supervise meetups
WithMe does not control what happens in person.
The most important thing
You decide:
- who you meet
- whether you go
WithMe helps:
- turn an idea into a plan
- turn a plan into something real
Everything after that is up to you.
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